13.11.11

Dating & Porn? No match!

erotic videosDating and Porn is no Match. I would like to discuss this matter a little bit further because our conception of sexuality has been distorted by the porn industry. We consume porn online, but most of the porn is completely women unfriendly. Why do I discuss this here? Very simple, dating is about flirting and seduction which will lead to erotic tensions. If there is sexual attraction, it would be a pitty if a man would mess up because he has watched too much porn. Dating has to be done with style, love making with care and personality. Therefore, I would like to advice all men to learn more on seduction and the sexuality of a woman. Watching porn will not help you, it will only potentially harm your dating aspirations to find a nice long term or shor term partner. Watching tasteful erotic films of producers like X Art and Hegre Art would be a good first step.

These erotic film producers make fantastic films embracing the sexuality and beauty of women in their most explicit glory. Hegre Art has been initiated by the famous erotic photographer from Norway, Petter Hegre. His style is to celebrate the beauty of female eroticism in wonderful crafted videos. It is not strange that you have to pay for this quality, but for 2 $ per week you will have access to an infinite, high quality and safe wonderful collection of exhilirating erotic videos. X-art is a fantastic choice as well.We hope that they soon will develop vr erotic videos in order to see these wonderful beauties in the virtual world!

3.10.11

Speeddating

Are you in a rush? Yes, speedadting is more common then you think. In fact, in particular the Netherlands there are many speeddating events. Speeddating is quite pragmetic, but extremely effective if you are up to it. More than 91 % of all the speedate event participants get a match. A speeddate event is a mix of a blind date concept with a musical chair approach. On the sound of a bell men are switching and passing on to the next table to talk to a girl for like 3 to 7 minutes. During this time both parties can get a first hunch and impression. On basis of this they will write down on a matchcard if the person was interesting or not. If both partners have filled in both yes on the matchcard, then they will receive an email the day after with the contact details of the other person. During a speeddate event singles can meet more then 20 other singles and filter out the rigth ones directly. Many women have after a speedate event a few matches they can date more intensively with. Speeddating is extremely powerful for those who are social and prefer a direct approach. In the Netherlands it is the organisation Speeddaten that organizes allot of these events across all major cities in the country.

2.10.11

Online dating information sites

We found a new dating information site in the Netherlands with a new fresh approach on the current dating trends you can find there. If someone is interested in following the online dating trends in the Netherlands it could be worth a try to read and mabye subscribe to this dating information site: Online Dating Advies. They also have posted an article on Casual Dating: Casual Dating. This site could develop into a competitor of DatingADVISOR.

26.9.11

Seducing women - Help!

The game of seduction and flirting are one of the most exiting behaviors in the human species. This game seems to be mythical and the possession of the knowledge on how to control this game an ultimate goal for in particular male supremacy and confidence. Are you a Casanova or an Alpha man and able to seduce every woman? You feel the pressure? Men are tortured by the fear of being rejected. Men are afraid for not being successful in seducing and flirting with women. It is not so strange that many books have been written on this matter. Moreover there are many workshops available for men to deal with their anxiety to approach women and start flirting with them. DatingADVISOR in the Netherlands has published some good articles on this matter that will help men to overcome their fear and start to approach women without the need to succeed. - Vrouwen versieren - Flirten Dutchmen are lucky with these two profound articles on the matter.

27.8.11

Women and casual dating

Thanks to the TV series 'sex and the city' have more and more women emancipated their attitude to casual dating. Most of the women are looking for a long term partner on the long run, but more than 26 % of the online dating women are also looking for more short term casual encounters, one-night-stands or erotic partner.


Some dating sites have been created to accommodate the need of young single women for online casual dating for an erotic adventure. C-Date is the most important brand. It is a tasteful approach for sensual dating with style. It is quite a contrast with the porn like sex dating portals that do not attract the average woman, but rather desperate men looking for a sexdate.

It is an important shift in the online dating landscape. More and more women will make use of sophisticated casual dating platforms which will announce a decay in vulgar porn portals. It is possible to obtain a sex date on a tasteful and sensual way. The challenge will be for most men... will they become good seducers on this dating sites or will they scare away most women by their clumsy, explicit vulgar approach? A need for casual dating etiquette will be required before most women will be comfortable with embracing casual dating completely.

It took some years before women accepted the classical dating sites, the time has come now that they will accept the casual dating sites for exploring their sexuality and sexdating.

26.8.11

C-Date or C-Dating or Casual dating

Casual dating is the trend for more and more singles that have busy lives and are working on their career. The pace of live in particular in a bustling city with a stressful job does not provide a lot of time for dating or building long term relationships based on love and everlasting commitment. Casual dating is as such a more flexible form of dating where both partners are not making any kind of claims and in which the outcome is open.


Casual dating matches the need for meeting with the other sex for erotic adventures without the feeling that both parties have to get entangled in a love relationship. Casual dating would be a form of finding effectively a one night stand or a fuck buddy you meet when you like. Casual dating does not imply that both partners will move in the same apartment. Of course it does not rule out love either.The trend of casual dating has been spurred by TV-series like Sex and the City. Many singles have identified themselves with the characters and live styles.

Casual dating or C-dating is also way for cheating on your partner without being committed to a new relationship.In the Netherlands for example there are a lot of people typing 'Ik wil vreemdgaan' in Google search. Online casual dating is then a solution for these desperate outcries,

Finally, I want to get rid of a confusion. C-Date is a dating site or better said a company offering an online casual dating service.


14.6.11

Second Love


A second love? Yes, this presumes that you already have one. Your first love.... your fixed partner, husband or wife...... after a while many get sexually bored. Life is too short to be sexual frustrated and many fall into the big mistake to cheat on their partner by picking a friend or a college of work. Is is for this reason that Second Love dating has been created.

This dating site is quite unique. It offers people who want to cheat on their partners are platform to find like minded. They want to have a sexual adventure without harming their current relation with their first love. The Netherlands is quite progressive again in launching this dating site for cheaters. DatingAdvisor has created a great article: SecondLove.